Stereotype

So this keeps happening. The phrases are all too common.

Most illegal immigrants bring with them crime–(false). If you are black you automatically know how to dance–(false). A House Music party must mean ‘raves’ and recreational drugs–(false). Because I am a DJ and music producer, I must party all the time–(false). Yet, these and many others like them keep being repeated.

Please stop yourself when you hear yourself begin to utter them. Yes, they are somebody’s truth. Yet, this does not make them everybody’s truth.


Stereotype is available at these and other fine digital outlets.
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BSB0044 – Brand Spanking Bought – Podcast

My #100LongBeachDays adventure continues!

Along the way here is the latest #BSB podcast. Again, because I’m on the road, I forego the LOV (Layers Of Vinyl) selection and I forward the Throwback Section toward the front of the show.


Get this BSB on iTunes


Still, there is about an hour and a half worth of hot undergound House Music tunes.

Let’s go dance!


BSB0043 — Brand Spanking Bought — Podcast

Oh my god, I had so much fun this past weekend! Anyway, here is the my latest BSB show.

Inside there are shout outs to some cool new peeps I just met over the weekend. And a shout out to an old friend that I haven’t had the chance to catch up with a few years.

Surrounding that wonder is music from Risk Assessment, Jemini G, and PEZNT, Colette and Ghettoblaster, DJ E-Clyps, Franky Rizardo, and more…

Finally, there is a contest for some free stuff. Details for the contest is toward the end of the show.

Hey… If I get you dancing–even in your seat–I call it winning! Enjoy!


Stereotype

Some time ago I wrote prose about this subject. Unfortunately, we all have a collection of implicit biases.

The question is how often to we allow our bias to be challenged?



From the other side of the proverbial coin, I often feel frustrated when I come up against bias. It’s everywhere.

The disbelief in another persons eyes, even when faced with something to the opposite; especially when faced with proof and fact the bias is not true, not as broad, or, my favorite, the truth is a lot more nuanced.

It cuts to the white meat, when I see this internal battle manifest itself in another’s face.


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Personally, I have been trying to face my bias any time it rears its ugly little head. It’s a devil that appears on my shoulders at inappropriate times.

I’m sure it does for others too. After all, it is a human condition. Or should I say, it’s a disease.

However, I will continue this exercise hoping that like a weight lifter, the repetitive action of challenging my bias will strengthen my soul, and make me slower and slower to judge while broadening my knowledge if not compassion as well; as it seems to have been working through most of my life.

After all, I don’t fit your damn stereotype…


Stereotype will be an exclusive release to Traxsource on May 30 (pre-order is available now); released to all other digital stores on June 27.

 

BSB0042 – Brand Spanking Bought

It’s been just over a week since I have been back in the #LBC — Long Beach, CA — on my #100LongBeachDays of 2018. And there has been some set backs and some nice developments.

So how is that for a bad-news-good-news teaser, eh?

I’ll be going into some of the bad news soon enough. The good news is that I and one of my new friends out here from last year and I are launching a new project in the next few weeks. We are looking to have a launch party in late June.



But for now, dig into the latest BSB — Brand Spanking Bought Show.  It was recorded at Our Spot–my last Sunday in Baltimore before I started on this latest #100LongBeachDays 2018 adventure.

It has been awhile since Oscar and I had any face-to-face time–too long, to be honest–even though we have been in the same town of Baltimore for years. Yet here I was crossing the threshold into his store. (I should say their store–Belinda’s wonderful force is just as important in their story.)

There is much that is inspirational about Belinda and Oscar’s story in my humble opinion. But I will not spill those proverbial beans here. I suggest you go into there wonderful massage-barber-wellness shop and hear it yourself.

Tell them Stylo sent you–I’m sure they would love to tell their story. (And while you are there, partake in one of their beautiful soul replenishing services.)

 

BSB0041 – Brand Spanking Bought

Yesterday, I posted my latest podcast and mix BSB show.

There was a power outage that impacted when I aired the live portion on Instagram. As I have been in the habit of broadcasting the first 30 minutes or so of the show a week before posting on Mixcloud, this was delayed by 2 days.

The Layers Of Vinyl LoV features 1+1=Love by luluxpo on Compilatrax Vol 2.

Also inside is:

  • We Rock The House – Wise D, Kobe
  • Let Me Smash – Black V Neck, Tim Baresko
  • In the Throwback section, Main Ingredient – Bernard Jones, Aren B, Kink
  • Run – Tourist, Lil Silva
Photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash with more editing by myself…

 

Sacrifice

So I went off a bit on Instagram for #MondayMotivation

I probably came off as a bit of an ass to some. But here is the thing–I really don’t care.


How Not To Be ‘Encouraging’


The last week of positives culminated in a show for Butter, a last Friday of the month party upstairs at Ottobar.

(btw, I still get nervous for sets. It doesn’t matter if is for 20 people or 2000 people. I get nervous.)


There is no way to suddenly make it big


I guess it was something that got under my skin, this so called positive re-enforcement that was not positive. And this was a way for me to exorcise it.


Their is no so secret to success


No, it was not something in this past week. Yes, it was something that preceded it, but not by much. More importantly, it is a common thing for a lot of people to say, do, or suggest to others who actually have the balls (or vagina) to put themselves out there, who take risks beyond the average person.

I realize that this post or any post of this nature is not likely to be a tide changing event. However, just like putting the music out there, the prose out there, the writings out there, and letting the chips fall where they may so to speak, putting these feelings out into the ether is a way for me to be free.


 

Now on Bandsintown

Yep. I have joined the Bandsintown movement.

If you are using this app, I’d love if you would look me up there. Keyword search, stylo.

Feel free to contact me there too!

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